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Dear Sex Counselor,
Hi! I love to perform cunnilingus and enjoy all the variety encountered in the female anatomy while doing so. Trouble is, I don't get to practice it often enough and need refreshers and updated information to keep my skills current. My question is, can you recommend any good books on the subject, and do you know any new techniques or variances that I can practice?
Dear Sex Counselor, I really enjoy oral sex with my male partner, but I'd like to get better at it. Any ideas?
 There are several good resources to help you keep "current" on your oral skills.
First, try the beautiful book by Kenneth Stubbs Kiss of Desire. In there, you'll find lots of tips and techniques for ways to use your mouth and things to enhance your oral pleasure experience.
Another fun instructor is Nina Hartley, and her DVD on oral sex is full of good information on anatomy and what to do with it. The DVD is about both fellatio and cunnilingus, so if you're not interested in the fellatio part, just save that for someone who might be.
A bit more serious instruction can be found in the DVD "Better Oral Sex Techniques". This is a good guide for beginners and those seeking to improve their oral lovemaking abilities in a bit more straightforward, less ... lighthearted manner than Nina Hartley.
Finally, for those who want something simple, with a few props included, try the "Oral Sex Guide" for either men or women. The guide includes handy tips for you, plus a super-minty candy and a flavored lubricant, to make your oral explorations even more interesting.
Since willingness is the most important factor, you're already most of the way there. Have fun learning and practicing!
Aphrodite
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