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Dear Sex Counselor,
I want to find a book on Fellatio techniques, but I have no idea where to start. Do you have any suggestions on which book may be right for a beginner like me?
 Finding books on any sexual technique can be a difficult task because there are so many choices available. The best way to choose any resource is by assessing your own needs as a learner. Then, you must consider what types of things you want to learn about, like different positions, basic techniques, ways to spice things up, etc.
As a beginner, you have a big advantage because the information you find in any book will be new to you. Finding a well-rounded book that has basic information on anatomy and techniques may be your best choice. Two books that are great resources for beginners are The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio by Violet Blue and Going Down by Rogers and Perry. Both are excellent resources for anyone, male or female, who wants to learn about fellatio because they cover a wide range of topics from techniques to troubleshooting, as well as health and safer sex. Both of these books also address the myths and anxieties people have about performing and receiving oral sex.
There are plenty of options for people who already feel like they have excellent fellatio skills, but feel stuck in a boring routine. The Oral Sex Guide: How to Pleasure a Man has a tricks packed in an easy to use booklet to make spicing up a blow job easy, especially when on the go. Lisa Sussman’s How to Give a Mind Blowing BJ is packed with 100 tips and tricks to make the most mundane blow job delightful. The Ultimate Guide mentioned above, is another good source for people who want to add a little zing to their love life because it advocates role-play, fantasies, and games as a way of dressing up your session.
The best book we have for visual learners is MasterClass: Blow Jobs. The book feature real people demonstrating the ideas in the book on real bodies, as opposed to using illustrations. There are plenty of pictures throughout the book and it doesn't shy away from using close-ups for unmatched detail. Visual learners may also enjoy an instructional DVD over a book. Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide to Oral Sex: Fellatio is an unbeatable resource for beginners and pros who want to turn up the heat. For people who want to keep fellatio books around their house, but prefer to avoid material with explicit pictures, the Oral Sex Guide and How to Give a Mind Blowing BJ are your best options. No matter what book you choose, remember to have fun and only do what works for you.
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