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Description:
People often ask us for a book that helps them express their desires to their partners. This book does exactly that; it offers guidance, exercises, fill-in-the-blank sections and examples to help you learn to ask for what you want, when you want it. This book tries to appeal to couples who are not heterosexual, but the photos and examples are all heterosexual, so a gay or lesbian couple would have to gloss over those parts. The exercises are certainly applicable to any kind of relationship, and the advice works for all couples.
It's nice to have a book that is practical and incorporates relationship skills with the more specific skills of talking about sex. If you want a book that will help you find ways to get more of what you want while spicing up your sex life and giving more of what your partner wants, this is a good choice for you.
Here's the publisher's description of the book:
All the communication tools couples need to take their sex life to a new
level.
There you are, in the throes of passion, when suddenly, your partner shifts,
just a tiny bit. Instead of plateauing, you begin to plummet. Communication
is so important, but it's so difficult to tell your lover exactly what you
want, exactly when you want it. Maybe you don't want to hurt his feelings,
or make him think he isn't a good lover. Maybe you just don't know what
words to use. Or maybe you don't even know what you want yourself, or you're
embarrassed, or shy, or reluctant to ask.
But sharing our sexual needs and wants will not only enhance sexual
pleasure, it will enhance the love and the overall relationship as well.
When we know what to say and feel comfortable enough to say the words needed
to stimulate particular sexual activity, we feel safer and more contented.
On the other hand, when we hold ourselves back, we may feel frustrated and
even angry, feelings that are destructive to any relationship.
Written by sex therapist Carole Altman, Sex Talk
will give couples all the tools they need to communicate everything,
including fantasies and fetishes, preferences and desires, in a way that
will make their sex life even more exciting and explosive.
218 pages. Author: Carol Altman. 2004.
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