How to Choose a Nipple Toy
posted: 03/02/2009 2:52 pm
Dear Sex Counselor, I really like it when my partner plays with my nipples, and I've been thinking of bringing a toy or two to the bedroom. But there are so many nipple toys on your website! Where should I start?
Our nipple toys can be divided into two main categories – clamps and suction toys. We also have a variety of breast and nipple decorations.
Clamps have a metal pinching mechanism with coated tips to protect skin, and many have a chain connecting the clamps. Most of our clamps are adjustable, so you can control how mild or intense the sensation is. The wearer will experience heightened sensation both when the clamps are applied and when they are removed as fresh blood rushes back into the area.
For a very mild sensation, try the Nipple Teasers. These are mainly decorative, but do offer slight constriction. Our tweezer-style clamps are the most adjustable because they have a sliding adjuster rather than a screw. Tweezer-style clamps include the regular Tweezer Clamps, Nipple-Nipple-Clit Clamps, Nipple-Nipple-Cockring Clamps, and the clamps adorned with bells or beads. Next we have the Wide-Pad and Narrow Pad clamps. These offer nearly the same intensity, except that the wide pad spreads the sensation over a larger area, while the narrow pad creates more of a pinpoint pinch, which could feel more intense. Finally we have the Clover Clamps. These are the only clamps we carry that are not at all adjustable. The metal clamping portion is separated from the wearer’s skin by a small piece of cork. The extra metal of the design adds additional weight.
You might enjoy these if you prefer the feeling of your partner sucking on your nipple. Suction toys create a vacuum over the nipple, causing more blood to flow in and the nipple to become engorged and more sensitive. Bell-shaped suction devices feel less intense than cup-shaped suction toys because the cup shape forms a better seal against the skin. Betty's Bells are simply large suction cups that provide gentle suction to a large area of the breast, rather than focused nipple stimulation. The Wide-Mouth Nipple Pump is another bell-shaped suction toy, with a bulb on the end to pull air out of the bell.
The Nipple or Clit Pump is similar to the Wide-Mouth Pump, but is cup-shaped and made of glass, so it can be more intense. The Nipple Sucklers are small cup-shaped suction cups which focus the suction on the nipple, rather than spreading it out over the entire breast. Next, we have the Nipple Erection Set which comes with two sizes of pumps, and four pairs of little o-rings in various sizes. The pump can be used to create a nipple erection, and then the ring holds blood in the nipple, increasing the sensitivity. Finally, we have cupping sets, which provide the most intense suction. These have cups with a one-way valve and a pump to pull air out of the cups. The regular Cupping Set has two glass cups, and the Deluxe Cupping Set has 12 plastic cups in various sizes, so you can sensitize more areas on the body.
Because both clamping and suction toys work by altering or restricting blood flow, we recommend not using them for longer than 30 minutes at a time.
If these toys don't sound quite like what you're looking for, perhaps you'd be more interested in decorating your nipples and breasts. Pasties are "little hats for your nipple," and are attached using liquid latex adhesive. Or, we have small glittery tattoos and Titattoos that encircle your nipple, and more ornate, larger jewelled tattoos that cover your entire breast.
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