Nina Hartley’s Guide to Erotic Massage
Nina tackles yet another subject with her winning combination of sincerity and effervescence. She provides general techniques, but more importantly, she provides the encouragement and inspiration to perform an erotic massage confidently.
According to Nina, erotic massage is like therapeutic massage with one key difference: it’s arousing as well as relaxing. It’s a way to get to know your partner’s body, to provide sensual, full-body pleasure, and to reaffirm the importance of your relationship. The ideal erotic massage is one that leaves the recepient wanting more (sexual) contact with the giver (and vice versa!). The ideal mindset for erotic massage is one of generosity. It’s important for both partners to participate actively--as Nina explains, ”it takes practice to be present in our bodies when people are being nice to us,” so learning to relax and enjoy a sensual massage is as important as learning to give one. The giver should also enjoy providing the massage; it should make your fingers happy.”
With Adrianna Nicole, she explains how to set the right mood, what sorts of things you’ll need (a good massage oil, for example), and how to make the transition from erotic massage to sex. Then, she demonstrates an entire erotic massage with Randy Spears (the two of them definately have some chemistry--they’re really affectionate, and you can tell they love working together). She describes techniques as she performs them, so you get both show AND tell. The entire massage culminates, surprise surprise, in oral sex and penetration (including anal).
Finally, for our continued education and viewing pleasure, a second couple (a black woman and a white man, both of whom, not surprisingly, look like porn stars) performs an entire erotic massage, this time with the woman as recipient. This, of course, culminates in sex so that viewers will feel turned on as well as informed.
108 min. Produced in 2006.
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